DH has a hectic job. Works long hours, takes calls late into the evening and 60% of the year works internationally. It's fine I accept that's it's his job and he might miss when I'm ovulating, going through IVF, birthday or anniversary. I just get on with it.
I took a new job recently, was head hunted, got a 30k raise. But the hours are long while I learn/put in the hard yards.
DH isn't being supportive. He is always commenting on my long hours, late night and early starts.
Why is it ok for his work to impact on our life but not mine? AIBU to give this a red hot crack or should I be at home more?
FWIW, when DH isn't international he WFH. Chores are split 70/30 to me I would say, I have higher standards to tend to do the heavy lifting.
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Werkwerkwerkwerk · 09/12/2019 09:24
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