I have a friend of several years who has form for fabricating illness, twice she has been caught out feigning cancer symptoms and fabricating appointments and diagnosises before back tracking after questions are asked and making miraculous recoveries claiming the doctors had got it wrong. I stuck by her despite having strong opinions on her behaviour because I suspect there may be an underlying MH problem, I don't know. Members of her family have caught her out before.
This week I've been referred urgently on the 2 week pathway for a scan and further investigation, In my case they are looking for lymphoma. I have a thread in health and have been receiving some fab support (thank you all)
This friend now knows about my investigations and is suddenly "being admitted into hospital" tomorrow despite there being nothing wrong with her. No mention of bad health this year until my doctor has concerns about me, now suddenly she's at deaths door again. Lung cancer this time. (Another friend who lives closer to her than I do has confirmed there's nothing wrong, perfectly healthy as usual)
I'm deeply hurt that she's doing this again, and doing it off the back of my legitimate health problems.
I want to say something but I'm not confrontational. Would you say anything?
I'm wishing I cut her off before, but it feels so personal and heartless now as she knows what I'm going through.
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Friend taking illness again, after being told I'm on the 2 week pathway
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Lumpybumps1 · 20/11/2019 16:37
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