I’m really upset. Last week DH and I had an argument - when we get really heated we can both say things we don’t mean (although we argue rarely) but in this argument he said to me “the women I was supposed to marry died” - now I know when he was in school over 10 years ago he had a girlfriend who died and we had spoken about her before we married when we were just friends and he had said that she died, but from how he had spoken about her I thought of it as a kids relantionship and it never crossed my mind.
But now he suddenly brings it from nowhere. I always assumed I was his first love and his first everything ... AIBU to be hurt by this?
We spoke about it again tonight because it’s been on my mind all week and he has brushed it off as if it’s nothing and that I am being dramatic. But honestly it’s really disturbing me and I am really hurt, AIBU???
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Habeebah · 16/11/2019 22:24
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