I'm fairly laidback but she really is so unreliable. We'll arrange a date to meet. I'll message 24 hours or so in advance to say "are we still on?" (which seems to be what my other friends do, so I don't think I'm abnormally pushy or clingy). Half the time she won't respond until the date has passed. Or she'll say she's available but won't come back when I suggest a time, then it'll get to six pm on the day with no check-in from her and I'll just get an apology. Or we'll meet up but she'll be ninety minutes late.
Honestly, I wouldn't usually put up with this kind of thing. It's annoying waiting at home all day for someone who doesn't realise your time has value to get in touch. But my DS (aged 4) really loves her DD (same age) and wants to keep the friendship. Is there any way I can manage this? She doesn't have a young baby to get out of the house, nor is there anything else going on, to my knowledge (I know I can't say that with complete certainty but I'm as sure as I can be). Also, she suggests plans as often as I do so I don't think I'm just being obtuse about being phased out. Any suggestions?
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Cantbearsedwiththisshit · 15/11/2019 13:05
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