Old Aunty of my late husbands. Never met her.
She just said She thought my mil was selfish and spiteful for taking Dh’s ashes back to his country to be buried with his father.
Firstly it was my decision, mil didn’t ask.
He loved his country, wouldn’t wanted to have been buried here
Secondly, there’s more people there that will visit the grave
Thirdly, my son and I wouldn’t visit a grave, we talk to him whenever we feel like it.
And lastly mil isn’t even In that country, she lives some where else, so it’s not like she wanted it for herself.
So do ignore, or try to explain
She’s my mil’s sil, no love lost between them
AIBU?
To ignore this mean old woman’s email?
tomboytown · 12/11/2019 07:54
Am I being unreasonable?
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