So we’ve just had a family get together and I just try to confirm with my DM she is coming to mine for Xmas dinner (I am hosting). A long with my DM, I have invited my DF (divorced many years ago but civil). We normally do Xmas dinners separately with them but I am hosting this year and DM has recently split with long term 2 partner so didn’t want her to be alone.
When asked, DM said she has now arranged to spend Xmas with her friend.
This friend, is relatively new of hers and their friendship has become very intense. Friend is my age so my DM is not a similar age to her.
Friends mother died recently and has seemed to clung on my own DM. That in itself is fine as she must be going through a hard time but friends behaviour seems odd and possessive e.g. constantly texting my DM and getting annoyed when my DM doesn’t reply or ring her. Also sleeping over at my DM house and spending most evenings there despite the friend herself having her own DC.
It’s hard to explain but I feel like this friend is kind of claiming my DM as her own and sometimes comes across like she’s trying to isolate my DM so friend has her all to herself...
Which is why I’m annoyed that my DM has now said she is spending Xmas day with this friend.
AIBU? This friend of DM has lost her mother and my mum is supporting her (fine) but friend is possessive and she is my DM, not hers and should be spending Xmas with us??
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Possessive friend Xmas day
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Littlepeak34 · 08/11/2019 22:13
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