To think moving in with my bf who earns 8/9 times more than me will work

gotmysexybodback · 2019-10-22 07:33:14

No...not a boast, no buns please! We love each other. We have gone through terrible divorces recently. I have 2 children aged 11 (DD) & 9(DS). They are happy with the idea and like my bf. But because I gave up a good career to take care of DD (she has SEN but is doing well), Ive killed off any chance of gaining a decent salary for years. The idea is that we purchase a big house together. I'll put in 400k from my financial split from my divorce. He was fleeced by his ex so will get a mortgage for the same amount. Then a deed of trust will be drawn up to protect my 400k, should there be a split (hope not). I earn £800pcm and him . . .lots lots more. How do we split the bills? Bearing in mind I'll be £1000 down per month because my spousal maintenance & child benefit will be taken away. Please know I feel super lucky to have him in my life and really want this to work but fail to see how!!

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