Help! I think my neighbour is embarking on a campaign of bullying by bin. What can I do? She left her bin next to my car door, it may well have been just thoughtlessness so I moved it in front of her car door to highlight the problem. Except when I next went out she had moved it back in front of my car door. I moved it again back on the pavement but late last night she moved it to block my pathway where it still sits. I fear I have rattled her cage, what should my next move be? She has form as a nasty piece of work. She bullied the perfectly pleasant woman downstairs into leaving her flat of ten years after she dared to complain about the noise she made (including screaming at her 6 year old for three hours which led to a visit from the Police and Social Services ). She reported the neighbour to the police three times, claiming she had evidence that she had tampered with her mail, shattered her wing mirror and cut off her electricity. The Police took her seriously because she led them to believe that she was living in fear for herself and her child because of the behaviour of the "mad spinster" downstairs. The "mad spinster" had lived amicably with all previous tenants and the rest of her neighbours . All the neighbours made a statement to the police for in the event she tries wasting police time again, or starts a similar campaign of paranoia against one of us or a future tenant downstairs. Since then we have been careful to not rattle her cage, the landlord has even not rented out the downstairs flat to avoid further trouble. But now the bin is in my path. This is not a good time to be having a bin blocking our path and car door. My daughter shattered her tibia and is in a wheelchair, the nasty piece of work must know as we have had multiple trips to and from hospital by ambulance. Now she can bend her knee we are struggling to get her out of the house and in the car, it took lots of rehearsing with the physio to get her able to get in the car at all. What should my next move be? I don't want to just move it because bullies like you to back down but I don't want to escalate the situation either. Any attempt to talk to her will on my previous neighbour's experience just lead to a shouting match. My daughter is refusing a planned trip out because she is scared of bin related conflict. Ideas welcome!
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Emilyontmoor · 19/10/2019 17:16
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