I'll try and condense as much as possible!
Lived next to neighbour for several years. She is very angry at the world and has a problem with everything. She'll report people to the council for how they park and many other things and is generally not well liked. I make an effort with her as I want to live in peace and dont want to get on her bad side frankly. Since we've lived next to her we have had to put up with a lot of noise. Constant arguing, drunken antics all the time, running up the stairs like fucking hippos. She is very inconsiderate but I put up cos it's not the end of the world. Last week at 1am on a weeknight she was drunk and screaming and shouting. I was fed up and had to get up at 6am for work. I text her something to the effect of please would you shut your fucking mouth. I totally understand how this may have been taken. She replied ar 5am (clearly wasted) about how I'm taking the fuckig piss and I have a problem with her and how dare I speak to her like that and that she can hear my tv. I replied and apologised that I offended her, explained that that is how I talk and meant no offensive but outlined why her behaviour was unreasonable and that I am happy to put up with her noise (including her very loud tv all the time) she then replied with some more abuse about how i should just fucking move and then demanded i never speak to her again.
I get why she may have been upset by what i said, i apologised and tried systematically to be diplomatic and resolve it and give her a way out even though (imo) she was being insane.
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cnutnugget · 15/10/2019 17:33
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