This has been an ongoing issue for a few years but has come to a head again today so I want to know if IABU?
My DS's Dad has a partner of approx 9 years, she is a nice woman and I have absolutely no issues with her.
However... she / he involves her in every parenting discussion and every event going which grates on me - as I see it as, my DS has two parents who are both very involved so we don't need any external help.
DS's Dad and I are currently working through some issues that DS is dealing with and every opportunity, DS's Dad's partner is there - adding comments to our WhatsApp group etc.
I asked DS's Dad to meet me for coffee this weekend to discuss DS's problems, he said - fine come round for a coffee - I didn't want to as I want a conversation, just the two of us as to how we handle this very sensitive subject. I've asked to meet somewhere neutral and now he's got the hump with me as he obviously wanted her in on the conversation.
This is all very outing & I'm sure I'll get recognised for this - will name change after, but AIBU to want to work with him on his own on this as we are my DS's parents?
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AIBU?
To want to co-parent with just my DS's Dad?
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namechanger111 · 15/10/2019 17:01
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