I live in a shared house and have 2 housemates.
One is fine, moved in recently and have had no issues with him at all.
The other one is a pain in the arse.
He seems to do weird passive aggressive things that are aimed at me but not the other housemate. We have a shared kitchen but there are only certain utensils, mugs etc that I use. Every time he comes home he will move my stuff to the windowsill off the drying rack but never does it to the other housemate. He left one unwashed spoon and knife that were in the sink on top of my fridge. He will leave stuff out that he thinks that I've used for weeks and refuse to put them away even if I've not actually used them (FWIW I will wash small things like cutlery, mugs etc that aren't mine and put them away).
Tonight I ordered a pizza, not too late, about half 9. It took a bit longer than expected for it to arrive and turned up about half 10. I've done this before and they usually call me when they are nearby so I can come out but today they didn't. Housemate comes banging on the door to let me know they are there and then has a go at me saying he was in bed. Aibu to order a fucking takeaway in my own home?!
It's getting to the point where I'm really starting to hate living here despite the fact it's a beautiful house and everything else about it is great because I'm always wondering if something I do will piss him off. Normal things, like leaving a fork in the sink or having a visitor over. He ALWAYS comments if I have someone round and it's really making me uncomfortable and not want to leave my room in case I run into him! Or aibu and really inconsiderate?
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To be pissed off at my housemate?
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Refreshretry · 10/09/2019 23:23
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queenjr ·
11/09/2019 02:37
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