Recently split up from my partner after 15 years. Very unexpected. He’d been cheating. Never thought I’d find myself single.
Am currently in the loos at a club. Having a bloody brilliant night with a group of 5 girls (some single, some not) but I seem to be invisible. I’m the only one who hasn’t been approached by a man (admittedly it’s slim pickings in here but the confidence boost might’ve been nice). All the other ladies have been chatted up multiple times tonight. I’m actually quite embarrassed at how much I’m being ignored.
I thought I was what you’d consider a conventionally attractive person. I’m slim, decent genes, well dressed. I never had any problems with male attention last time I was ‘on the pull’ (ok, so I was 20 and I hadn’t had 3 kids, admittedly).
So bloody depressing! I am honestly thinking of going running back to my ex!
What am I doing wrong here? I felt fabulous when I left the house.
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To wonder when I became invisible?
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DrInvisible · 25/08/2019 02:51
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