Am due to move in with DP in the next few weeks. He works long hours from home and only really cleans and tidies when the house gets to quite a disgusting level, then will blitz the whole thing. I prefer to keep stuff tidy and clean, not to an obsessive level but so that it’s pleasant to be in. He hates cleaning (obviously I love it ) and just will not do it on a day to day basis, I’m not naive enough to think this will ever change. I’ve said to him that when I move in either we will have to get a cleaner or I will work part time and do the cleaning on the other days I would have worked. AIBU?
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To say either we get a cleaner or I work part time
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Boules · 24/08/2019 10:45
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Am I being unreasonable?
412 votes. Final results.
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You are being unreasonable
38%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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