AIBU to say it’s because he is the sex drive of a snail?? Actually I have no insight into snail behaviour, but I feel like I might actually implode soon!
2 years people, 2 years!!! I know he doesn’t find me physically attractive since the birth of DD. He’s said that directly. I’m a size 14 now versus a size 8 before.
What really upsets me is that we were watching Love Actually last weekend. Not sure if you know the film, but Martine’s character mentions a horrible old boyfriend who said she was fat. I mentioned to DH “isn’t that an awful thing to bully someone about their weight”, because he does make a big issue about my weight, when am I going to go on a diet, do I really want to eat 2 pieces of bread etc etc. DH replied that it’s only horrible in the film, because she isn’t actually fat. So that’s nice, obviously I’m grotesque.
Anyway, I think that’s why I feel quite ragey (not a real word). Mostly I’m fine and I bury my feelings and I know from the outside that we look like we have a perfect life. I’d trade the lot if he showed some passion.
Sorry for the long ramble. I’ve been asked the question a lot by him recently and I really do want to shout why!! It’s not normal is it? To be made to feel ugly and also for a man to not want sex with his wife?
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Aballoonabouttopop · 13/08/2019 21:46
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