Hubby and I have been together 10+ years and 6 years ago we moved 5 hours drive (when the roads are clear) away from the inlaws. Everytime hubby has wanted to see his family we have visited. They do come down occasionally and visit us. Their last visit to us was at Easter and our last visit to them was at christmas.
I have been finding stuff increasingly difficult and have recently been diagnosed with fibromyalgia and IBS. We have 3 boys (aged 8, 6 and 2) and a large dog. Going to visit the inlaws means staying with them, all of us in one room. There would be a total of 5/6 adults and 5/6 kids in the house, plus pets. Christmas with them was hard, lots of stomach bugs, big gatherings and I really didnt cope well. We still went even though I really didnt feel up to it and I regret it. I love the inlaws, but its just becoming too much.
Am I being unreasonable to say no to going up this summer?
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Declining to visit the In-Laws for the first time in 10 years!
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InnerSteel · 17/07/2019 12:36
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