DH here in need of advice. Apologies for epic post.
DC is month old and yesterday DW was concerned they were feverish and had a small mark on their arm. She phoned NH24 to be safe and her and baby were brought in for observation.
The fever was put down to the hot weather (all vitals are normal) and one of the nurses observed baby sucking it's arm which produced another small mark same as first.
We assumed the mystery was solved. all other tests were normal and baby was by all other accounts healthy. So assumed mum and baby would be home today...
Mum was informed as baby had a mark they were informing SS and today they've had numerous consultants but nobody is informing us when we can go home.
There's been suggestion someone fron SS could need to stay with us for a few days!!!
Does this seem ridiculous to anyone???!! On the balance of evidence:
- we self admitted to the hospital (not neighbours phoning over a domestic but our concerns)
- the mark had reasonable explanation as witnessed by 2 nurses
- baby has no other marks and is otherwise healthy confirmed by nurses (so no evidence of a pattern of abuse)
- baby has been visited by health care professional/midwife every 3 days since birth (stabilising feeding routine was a battle). These professionals have observed baby closely and would've reported anything untoward surely?
So this is one isolated mark, which is getting blown out of proportion.
Mum is upset and in constant tears. She's not being well updated and feels she's being punished for trying to be a good mum and report her initial worries.
If I wasn't so annoyed I'd find it hilarious. What happened to common sense? Appreciate any words of wisdom.
Thanks