AIBU? My ds had his 8th birthday party yesterday and I don’t think I’ll be doing that again. I was quite taken aback by the behaviour of so many parents and some of the children too.
- 10 people didn’t respond to the invitation at all
- 1 child turned up without RSVP ing
- 1 child sent an email rsvp acceptance 25 minutes before the party started
- 2 people who said they’d be there didn’t turn up, no explanation
- about half the parents didn’t speak to me at all, just dropped their kids and ran without saying hello then came and collected them without saying thanks or goodbye.
- kids saying “I’m leaving can I have my party bag?” And their parents watched them
- kid ran in and said “is Jamie here?” (Answer - I don’t know because his mum never responded to the invite but my son is over there if you’d like to say hello and happy birthday)
-kids refusing to sit at the party table for tea so my son was left sitting with just one child next to him
- two parents paid for their younger children to join the party (in a separate room from the rest of the play area) without asking - I would have said yes of course but it would be nice to be asked.
There was also 2 kids crying for their mum two kids hurt themselves, and one wet himself. Not rudeness but just so stressful.
My son had a nice time but I was quite upset at the behaviour. AIBU?