Uninvited From Wedding

kez3000 · 2019-04-29 09:33:31

Would like some second opinions please as genuinely can't work out who is being unreasonable here... In January my best friend invited us to her wedding which is taking place in July, in another country. She asked me to be a bridesmaid. The wedding invite stated "no children" and when I queried this she said they were having an adults only wedding - except obviously their own children would be there (1&3). She told me that as I am a bridesmaid, my son (2) could come, and she also knows I have no childcare options (dad too old and sick, no parents on husband's side). Great, all sounds good and I say I would love to be a bridesmaid. My husband and I book the time off work, the accommodation and the transport. Everything is now paid for. Today she has told me that my son can no longer come with us as they have decided it really is adults only and they don't want the stress of children. She suggested I come alone and leave my husband at home with our son. I understand that it is her wedding, and therefore her rules. After all, they have paid for it. But to say yes and then change your mind? When everything is already booked? WWYD? AIBU?

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