Is he being a pig or AIBU?

Eatmtcheese · 2019-04-25 16:21:17

Two nights ago I was taken to hospital, via ambulance as I couldn’t breathe very well. Very high BP and heart rate. Chronic lower chests infection and throat infection, but not upper airways so no concerns about asthma etc. I had an ECG which was normal but heart rate night. On antibiotics and steroids and supposedly bed rest. Have to have BP checked Friday evening and if no lower I might be admitted to hospital as a precaution. I feel generally dreadful and very poorly. Have three kids under six. One of them - the baby - at the doctors now with him for their cough and a burst ear drum and he’s just been prescribed antibiotics for a chest infection. He’s co sleeping and up all night coughing and doesn’t sleep. H supposed to be taking in one of them away for a night this weekend, to see other friends and their kids. He’s turned round today and said he is going anyway and will take the middle child as well as the eldest and leave me and the baby here - without a car - to have a rest. My mum is in her seventies and up the road but is herself just off antibiotics for a chest infection and doesn’t drive should I need to be seen urgently over the night or weekend. She is supposed to going away. This weekend for a rest and to recuperate herself and feels very worried about me, but isn’t that well herself. AIBU to feel so unloved and uncared for that he would actually want to do this or is he being a shit? I also feel it’s not fair on the baby when cannot look after properly on my own as I feel very weak and unsteady. What would you do and how would you feel?

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