I've been feeling anxious ever since we had a heart to heart on bank holiday sunday.
She told me that her relationship with dps dad was full of violent rows, that he stayed out and didn't come home (implied infidelity I thought but not sure), that she cried all the time.. She told me that her son would never have noticed as she always kept it from him. She told me never to say anything to dp. Which of course I wouldn't . They get on fine now apart from I notice do dad snaps in what sounds like a horrible way to me but noone mentions it.
Dp says he had a happy childhood. I can't believe he would think this and actually it sounds horrible and abusive to me.
I had an abusive marriage and want to steer clear of any warning signs. Dp has been nothing but lovely to me so far I should add.
Should I just forget what she said? I don't know how to make sense of it.
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Suliemantra · 23/04/2019 06:13
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