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So , DH and I always make an effort on family birthdays ... our siblings get cards but DH Mum, Dad and our nieces and nephews all get presents, Easter eggs , Christmas presents , presents for new baby etc. ( can I add we are not well off by any means , average jobs , no huge savings account ... we live payday to payday like many other people )
When we see our nieces we sometimes take then a sweet / take them to the shop for an ice cream etc .... all our choice but make the effort .
Anyway yet again it’s my sons birthday and nothing ! From no one !! Grandparents, aunties, uncles NOTHING !!!
I don’t expect him to be bombarded with presents at all , we are his parents.... but a card A BIRTHDAY CARD THAT SHOWS HES BEEN REMEMBERED!!!!
This happens with all 3 of my kids every birthday and I’ve just about had enough , they are good kids who always play nice with their cousins , they are polite and friendly, one of them ( teen ) regularly babysits for free , as do me a DH .
Constanstly told ... sorry didn’t have time to get a card or I have no money for a card ( you can get one for as little as 50p) when they constantly have take seats and are always in town near shops !!
Aibu to think I should do exactly the same from now on and not turn up with treats either !!
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Mumzy02 · 21/04/2019 11:19
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