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To wonder why I’m being sent “sissy” pics of a guy I went out with ten years ago?!

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dontmessagemethat Thu 18-Apr-19 08:24:15

On Saturday I got a fb message request from someone I didn’t know. I had a look at the picture and it was a guy wearing lingerie (I think it’s part of the sissy kink). I thought it was spam at first but when the person said “this is x” I realised it was a guy I went on a date with when I was at uni ten years ago.

I was a bit confused but let it go. I was thinking at first it was a scam but since then I’ve received ten more pictures from different people, all looking like him (I mean he’d have aged 10 years so I guess it’s him?) in different lingerie/wigs, all telling me to humiliate him because he’s a sissy.

I have no contact with him but tried to find him on fb to see what was going on. It was so long ago that I can’t even remember his last name but I couldn’t see him through mutual friends. He has a non-English name that I’ve not heard anywhere else which is why I’m fairly sure these pictures are of him and have been sent to me on purpose.

Has this happened to anyone else? I’m blocking as the pictures are sent but I’m wondering if it’s a weird scam and it’s just a coincidence it looks like/has the same name as the guy from uni and it isn’t actually him..? I don’t know how they’ve connected me with him as we aren’t fb friends, the only thing I can think of is there’s one picture of us together.

I have absolutely no problem with the sissy kink but I’m genuinely worried he could be in trouble and I don’t know how to get in touch with him. Also wondering if anyone has experience with it (I had a friend who did it and told me about it so I knew what was going on when I opened the message) and is this part of it? I’m just very confused and don’t particularly want explicit pictures messaged to me every day!!!

ReanimatedSGB Tue 23-Apr-19 13:38:31

Look, honestly, you are giving this too much time and mental energy. Just block and delete. You're not friends with this man and he is not your problem.

puckingfixies Tue 23-Apr-19 14:00:11

Contact the police, if he is sending the photos he is making the OP an unwilling participant in his sexual fetish, if he's not sending them he may be in trouble.

dontmessagemethat Tue 23-Apr-19 16:52:31

They’ve stopped sending the photos now thankfully, I said I would contact the police about harassment if they continued. Can’t do much to help the guy - I’ve tried looking for him online but can’t find him and I can’t remember his full name/don’t know where he lives so doubt the police would be able to do much. Think the accounts are fake as well because they’ve clearly only just been set up.

handbag4444 Tue 16-Jul-19 10:42:54

I have to be honest I have heard of this happening before and I really wouldn't be to worried, he sounds like he might be a submissive and serving a mistress who has maybe done some consensual blackmail with him, he has maybe been out of order and sent her your details so that she can expose him to you for his own humiliation, as normally a mistress will ask for a name of someone he had has a crush on!

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