My DH and I are living with my parents in the week and his parents at the weekend while we wait to move into our first house (just exchanged).
DH’s birthday is next Wednesday. DH works long hours and won’t be home that early, so my parents offered to take us out for dinner locally. We assumed we’d celebrate with DH’s parents when we see them at the weekend as they live about an hour away.
DH’s parents have just suggested we go out for dinner (local to them) on Wed, but DH has told them (not as tactfully as he perhaps could have done tbh) our plans as above. They got very upset and FIL has just finished lecturing my DH about how much he has hurt his mother etc.
DH is now saying we should cancel on my parents and spend it with his instead. AIBU to think that this all a bit ridiculous?
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AIBU?
To think that a 32yo man doesn’t have to spend his bday with his parents?
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Emma090 · 18/04/2019 07:00
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