My partner is wonderful, amazing in every way. He has adopted my eldest 3 children and we have one together. Before I was in a horrific abusive marriage and I hoped he'd be the one. And this would be a proper loving marriage, but he doesn't want to even propose. I thought he hadn't because he wasn't in a well paid job and our lives had alot of added stress and heartache. Now 7 years down the line, the selfish part of me just wants the lovely proposal and wedding. Sounds ridiculous but I'm jealous that the kids are officially his and not me. I love him so much. He taught me how to be myself. Which is main reason I dont want to push him into anything. I have new health conditions that affect me, he has stuck around and I dont think he would bail. So why am I wanting official notice that he will stick around? I just want to show everyone I love him and that we are permanent AIBU.
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