Okay, maybe I know where but more of a how can I undo the damage.
My daughter is 10 years old and she has been an absolute dream from birth, always slept really well and very well behaved, polite, friendly and bright, does well in school and has a good group of friends.
She was off for the first week of Easter holidays last week (even though it's nowhere near Easter yet - don't get me started - that's a whole new thread) and I tried my best to keep her entertained all week. It was very expensive but we had fun and a good week off.
One of the days, early in the morning, I got a call from my Mum telling me that my sister had been rushed to hospital, in an ambulance, with severe bleeding and vomiting. We were all really worried about her and rushed around to help with childcare etc. Turned out to be very serve food poisoning.
I left my daughter at home with my husband and when she woke up she asked my husband where I was, naturally. He proceeded to tell her that her Auntie had been rushed to hospital very poorly to which she replied "Oh, so I get we're not going shopping today then"!! I had said that that day we could go and do some shopping but obviously I didn't know this was going to happen with my sister.
I mean, how selfish can a 10 year old child be? There was no "Oh, I really hope Aunite X is okay" or anything like that. Just such blatant selfishness that she wasn't going to be getting what was promised.
I don't know where I went wrong. All week I tried to give her fun things to do and tried to have a nice week off.
Don't get me wrong, she is very grateful, always thank yous and telling me how much of a good time she's having, very appreciative but ALWAYS looking for the next thing, ALWAYS waiting for what's next, like what she's already had isn't enough.
I know I only have myself to blame because I've allowed it to happen but how do I now undo the damage of her being so selfish?
I just keep thinking about her immediate response when finding out her lovely Auntie was very poorly and I'm disappointed. I just want her to grow up a nice, kind person.
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MummyStruggles · 08/04/2019 15:37
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