My boyfriends brother is really getting on my nerves.
Firstly he's been in a relationship for 2 minutes and already he's talking about extravagant wedding proposals and showing me engagement rings he's planning on buying her worth 9 grand.
The thing is, its not this thats actually bothering me because I am actually genuinely happy for him its how he's saying these things to me. Its coming across like he's in some sort of competition with me and my boyfriend, and he alway's has to do one better than us or portray his relationship to be better than ours - which is absolutely ridiculous.
At the end of the day this is my boyfriends brother - there is absolutely no competition on our part, we just want nothing but the best for him and it upsets me that he's behaving this way.
Here are a few examples of what he's like:
- I'll be discussing the fact I'd love to get married but due to our current finances we just wouldn't be able to afford it as of yet - he then proceeds to show me a 9 grand engagement ring that he's planning on buying his girlfriend.
- ill tell him money is tight and straight after he'll tell me how him and his girlfriend are on a huge wage between them and starts showing me all the mansions they can buy.
- books the same hotel as me and my boyfriend did but tells me he's booked the most expensive room there.
- discussing baby names and he says 'lets face it me and * will be having kids before you two!" - which is massively insensitive. What if me and my partner couldn't actually have babies?
There is so many more but I'll be here all day. Its really getting to me at the moment and I don't really know how I deal with this? Can someone advise?