Just this, really. I'm 43, divorced, I have a partner of six years. We don't live together and probably never will, that's a whooooole different story.
I have an amazing DD, 11, from my marriage.
I often feel sad and envious of other women who seem to have such lovely supportive husbands who adore them and adore being with them. I know we can never know what goes on behind closed doors and I try to remember that, and since I've been divorced I've really wanted to get married again and know what it's like to have a supportive partner.
I don't think I've ever had a man in my life who I can lean on and rely on, looking back - I certainly don't have one now.
The last few months I have increased my hours at work and am more financially stable. I've started to think, do I really want to live with a man again?
I'm so used to relying on only me to do chores, manage money, raise DD, etc etc, that I'm wondering if it would just annoy the shit out of me.
I can't be bothered with wondering if he might help around the house, split chores 50/50 etc, and the thought of being pissed off about a lazy bloke in my house terrifies me.
Anyone else in my situation?
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To think that maybe it's better to only have myself to rely on?
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Myotherhusbandisgaryoldman · 06/04/2019 09:31
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