So for context, I'm 38. In my twenties I had more male friends as I found their interests to be broader, they were better read etc. Whereas women were slightly narrower in their perspective with more focus on their relationships or doing up their first homes.
Now, I see women my age and older coming out of the fog of 'must find husband and have kids' to really embrace their own interests, become engaged with world issues and so on. Women past 35 tend to have wide and varied social networks, men often rely on their partners friends or couple friends.
A couple of my friends husbands are already grumpy old men. Whereas my female friends are embarking on new goals and adventures.
Perhaps this difference is amplified for me as I become single at 34 (widowed) and when I was ready to date I couldn't believe how dull and lost the majority of single men were. Whereas I had learned to embrace being single, even though it wasn't my choice, have adventures etc, they all seemed to be sitting around waiting for a partner to complete them.
I know some men are fascinating and some women are deathly dull, but on average I think I'm correct. AIBU?
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To think (on average) women get more interesting with age and men less so?
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Grobagsforever · 06/04/2019 07:24
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