My step children are with us 50:50. They are lovely and we do have a good relationship my issue isn't with them personally.
But recently I am getting so fed up when they are here. They have an Xbox in our living room and for the time they are here, all they do is play games.
I know that it's a generation thing now and a lot of them do it but DH will not entertain the idea of getting them something for in their room so we have our house back. He says it would be like shutting them away and not spending any time with them. But to me, they don't even notice we are in the same room when they are on it! We don't converse with them or join in.
It's definitely a DH problem, I know this. He needs to limit screen time better but it's getting to the point where I no longer look forward to them coming.
I don't mind playing games with them, watching a film, baking together etc... But I end up wanting to pull my eyes out with a rusty fork after about 3 hours of gaming in the living room. Our downstairs area is mainly open plan and they are on headsets with friends so it ends up being very loud.
We do try to go out for walks etc... But the second we are back in the house it's on. If we suggest doing something else there are tears and massive tantrums and my DH doesn't want to the 'bad guy' so allows it to continue (totally his issue).
It's not up to me to parent his children, I understand that but am I really being that unreasonable to suggest that if he wants to let them play games all afternoon/evening then can they do it in their bedroom so I feel like I can enjoy my home?!
I feel like a wicked step mother and I'm not, I really do care about these kids a lot but I feel like my house is completely taken over all day with this problem.
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To be starting to get fed up with step kids contact time being spent on games console
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Tututuna · 04/04/2019 18:22
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