My first post and I might be oversensitive. It's been a trying time so please go easy on me. I have a son with developmental trauma. He's going though a very rough time. He's 7 and he has some enormous meltdowns. This has been going on for years and we've been coping with a lot of issues since we first adopted him. We work with many specialists and it's been a long process. Lately things have been worse. My friends know of our struggles and how hard it can be for me to go out to meet them. I decided to invite a few of them over this weekend after he's gone to bed so I can socialize. All but one have been super evasive and not given me a reply. Today one of them said her and the other girls have been talking and they are worried they might wake up ds and he'll melt down so they don't want to come over. I'm not at all worried about this or I would never have invited them over. But even if he did I would deal with it like I always do. I'm just so hurt. I have felt so isolated lately and thought this would be a perfect way to get to see them when I don't have to worry about ds. I just feel like crap about it. I wish they had all just said no instead of telling me the reason. Maybe I'm being completely oversensitive, I just feel it would be better not to know why they didn't want to come over. It just makes me sad.
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