Clearly, something is very wrong. I've always known and kept it in mind but never understood fully.
A few highlights:
They pretended to have cancer for over a year, including shaving their head and claiming it was due to chemo. It hurt so many people when the truth came out and when their motives were questioned, they claimed they felt neglected and that they weren't getting enough attention.
Tells constant lies that they seem to fully believe. When recounting the past details are severely twisted, usually in a way to make them look better.
In a conversation talks consistently about themselves, will occasionally ask how you are but will talk over your answer and switch the conversation back to them at the earliest convenience. Will also happily interrupt you mid sentence and start talking about an entirely new topic related to themselves. This is a constant habit.
They need to be the centre of attention, and will create drama to twist the attention on to them if they aren't getting enough (this happened at both my wedding and my baby shower, leaving both ruined)
Lied about the paternity of two children, leaving two heartbroken children and 'dad' after I paid privately to find out the truth.
They have no filter, and often say really nasty, hurtful things and don't understand when people get upset. They are especially bad for this online (think along the lines of commenting on someone's Facebook picture saying they look tired etc)
They claimed my son isn't a real grandchild as he lives too far away, we live less than an hour away and they can drive. They've visited me once in the past 16 months.
I could go on, and on. I've had a lifetime of this.
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Garlicsticks · 03/04/2019 21:38
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