I thought a few outside opinions would be useful and I bet other people here have experience of similar!
I have 3DC with exH. They are 12, 10 and 7. They spend EOWeekend and one night in the week with him, which seems fairly standard. He has asked to have them two out of the three weekends over the Easter holidays, which is perfectly fine (in fact, I'm quite looking forward to it!). However, as happens occasionally, DD1 has been invited to a sleepover at a friend's house and it clashes with part of 'his time'. She would, instead of going to his house at 6pm on the Friday evening, be delivered before noon on Saturday.
He says no, she can't go (for various reasons, its tricky to re-arrange, at least for a couple of months). She is sad about this, but accepting, as their Dad never allows them to see friends when he has them.
I'm quietly fuming, as their Dad never takes them to any fun stuff (seriously, they have never even been to the park down his road) and it seems unfair for DD1 to miss out on a really fun trip, especially as I have agreed to do all of the running her around to and from to limit the hassle to her Dad (he doesn't drive and it is a bit of a trek).
I'm kind of torn about what to do, either argue her case to him or leave them to it given that in a year or two she will start getting really cross about not being able to see any friends two weekends a month? I guess I have a WWYD as well as an AIBU!
AIBU to help DD1 argue her case for going to the sleepover?
WWYD in this situation?
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purplereindeer · 03/04/2019 14:03
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