Back story: There’s woman who’s kids used to go to my DC’s nursery, very troubled in every sense of the word ie, alcohol, drugs, MH issues etc. Children removed by SS a while ago, and no longer attend the nursery. There was a big incident over the weekend, resulting in this woman being arrested - we live in a small village, so everyone knows about it.
Fast forward to today, and I’ve gone to pick my DC up from nursery. Probably 7 or 8 mums all waiting in the cloakroom for our DCs, chatting, manager in the office chirping into the conversation. Then the conversation turned to the incident at the weekend, and the family in question. Then the manager mentions about how she knows the social worker involved (presumably because SS had contact with her while the DCs were attending the nursery?) and then starts talking openly about details of their ongoing case
I was gobsmacked that someone in that position would openly gossip about something so sensitive with other parents!! The woman in question is no friend of mine, and I’ve witnessed some of her absolutely hideous drunken behaviour, but I couldn’t help but feel sorry for her, having her business discussed by everyone, including someone in a position of trust I didn’t say anything at the time, but I’m now thinking I should have said how inappropriate it was?
Would you have said anything?
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IntoValhalla · 03/04/2019 12:51
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