I’m due to go on a hen party next month, it’s DPs family member although we’re fairly close
The whole thing is a surprise for the hen so all of my info is coming via text from one of the bridesmaids who I’ve never met
I’ve recently been told that I’m to wear a specific colour, it’s a colour I don’t wear at all and I would have to go out and buy a whole new outfit for it, which I hadn’t originally planned to do plus it would literally be worn once so it feels like such a waste of money
The whole wedding plus stags and hens is already costing us a lot of money and this is yet another expense that we really can’t afford
WIBU to just say no, I’m not wearing that colour, but I’ll avoid being in pictures so as not to ruin them (which I’m fairly sure is the reason for the colour scheme?)
I’ve never met any of these people before, if I say no will they all hate me before I even get there??
Should I just suck it up and buy a new outfit?
I don’t want to be the awkward one who refused to join in
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To say no to this hen party request?
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HenPartyHelp · 02/04/2019 23:27
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