In recent months I have been very ill and been in hospital twice for a week each time, undergone surgery and terrible infections after said surgery.
The rest of my family and my good friend TF have been ralling around helping out with my DD and me and I am so grateful to each and every one of them
But my 26 year old brother who dropped out of uni for the second time recently and whos only committment is to work in a pub part time, has not bothered contacting me for months.My family have told him how ill I have been and yet he hadn't got the time to contact me and find out how I was doing.
I have left phone messages with his housemates and on his mobile, sent him texts/emails and yet heard nothing.
Yesterday I got a brief email from him saying that he would like to have a chat at some point, if I could find the time to ring him as he is far to busy to ring me....WTF
So recovering from a major operation whilst careing for a young baby means I have nothing better to do but chase him up.
I do love him but I have had it up to here with his selfish ways, I have to make all the effort to keep communication going and doesn't he can not be bothered to make a single phone call to check how I am doing.
Am I being unreasonable ?
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BabiesEverywhere · 12/07/2007 12:30
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