My DF has been going through a rough patch with her DP.
They’ve been together around 10 years, give or take. From what I can gather, her OH has tried to end their relationship several times over the past couple of years. She point blank refuses to move out and so does he.
He’s recently told her that he’s not loved her for years and they need to go their separate years - yet, they’re still sleeping together (according to her)
She’s heartbroken and devastated, evidently still very much in love with this man. She admitted to me last week that she hasn’t been taking her contraceptive pill for a while. She instantly admitted that she was crazy for even thinking about it but can bring herself to take it - she feels as though a baby is the one thing missing from their relationship and that it would bring them closer together.
I love my friend dearly but I honestly don’t see how this can end well. It’s deceptive, cruel and not fair on him, nor the baby.
Don’t get me wrong, if he was serious about ending things, he should’ve taken the first step to move out and he certainly shouldn’t still be using her for sex.
How do I sensitively warm her off this idea? I’ve tried already but it’s falling on deaf ears.
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AIBU?
To think my friend is being selfish and unreasonable in planning to ‘trap’ her DP into pregnancy.
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Elfintreehuggywugger · 02/04/2019 11:34
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