Ok so I know it’s over 6 months away but I’m already fretting over this.
DH & I have gone to my PILs every Christmas for the last 8 years (since before we were married.) They live almost 2 hours away so we always stay with them for a few days.
We spend Christmas Eve with my family, they live just down the road from us so we go home that evening. My DM has been very good about us going there for Xmas day, but it does always make me sad leaving and know I’m not seeing them on Xmas day itself.
I am pregnant and due in late Sept.
Today my MIL started talking about a cot she is getting, so “when you’re over to mine for Christmas”. I have no intentions of going this year. I don’t want to travel with my 3 month old baby and I want to spend its first Christmas at home.
I’m worried this new is going to go down like a shit sandwich with MIL who is very demanding.
Can I really be expected to pack up all my new baby’s things and travel to spend Christmas at their house?
How am I going to break the news? (Obviously much closer to the time)
Advice please
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FineFanks · 31/03/2019 21:00
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