I posted a couple of weeks ago regarding my NDN. She fell & broke both her wrists. She lives on her own with her cat, she is 66.
I heard her screaming, called an ambulance & went with her to hospital. It’s a 45 minute drive away.
My DP & I have been feeding her elderly cat. The cat is incontinent. DP has cleaned up her mishaps from the kitchen floor on 3 occasions & I’ve washed her blanket that had crap/sick all over it.
I’ve just gone around to close the back door (we’ve been leaving it open for a few hours to air the kitchen where the cat is confined) & there is shit everywhere. Obviously the cat is poorly so not her fault.
My AIBU is that we haven’t heard a single thing from our neighbour despite sending ‘ how are you’ texts & calling the ward - the Sister has said she’s fine .
We’ve bought cat litter & now it’s run out of food which we cannot afford to replace.
Before anyone asks we haven’t visited because we both work full time & barely know our neighbour.
Yesterday I got a call from the hospital saying they were delivering a commode so we had to stay in so we could give them access to her house.
I’m just completely bemused to 2 weeks of no communication at all despite near daily messages from us !
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AnotherNightCooking · 30/03/2019 18:00
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