Helpful advice would be really appreciated. In a nutshell, DD 17 has a boyfriend, also 17. Both in further education, she has a part time job, he doesn’t. She doesn’t speak to me about anything to do with him, she can get very annoyed if I ask any questions. I know they have been together since just before Xmas. I have met him many times and he has always been very polite and pleasant. However, she pays for absolutely everything. Meals out, clothes, his fags, gives petrol money to his mates when they pick her up etc. When I have spoken to her she insists she doesn’t, but I have seen her bank statements which say otherwise. She will soon be taking her driving test and wants a car, but she has absolutely no money left each month. Our relationship can be a little broken sometimes, one minute she wants my advice on things, the next she hardly utters a word. Typical teenage behaviour. How do I go about telling her basically he is a bum and she could do far better? I think the relationship is more on his terms in regards to seeing each other etc. I didn’t think it would last as long as it had to be honest and I can see she is totally smitten
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whatacrapusername2306 · 30/03/2019 16:16
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