Excuse my naivety around HPV, it was unheard of when we were getting educated on smear testing/cervical cancer
The relationship with my ex is a whoooole thread in itself, so I'll stay away from other details not relevant to the point of this thread.
Last year I found out my OH at the time was married. Found out by the wife contacting me. Ended things right away with ex, kicked him out, haven't spoken to him since - all good. She also divorced him. A few years ago I had a smear which tested positive for HPV and abnormal cells which I had LLETZ for and cells were CIN3. I'd been with my ex a few months before I had this smear. Went for my routine one last week at which the nurse explained HPV is 'spread' much like an STD. Again, please excuse my ignorance but I hadn't known this. My question is, should I tell the ex wife this? She's such a lovely lady and I don't want to dredge up all the hurt again by contacting her, but now I'm terrified she's not keeping up with her smears and I've passed on HPV which could potentially lead to cancer?
Now I'm typing it, it does seem daft - surely now she knows beyond all doubt her exH was a cheat, she should be in charge of her own check ups, STI and smears... right?? Or just she deserve me spelling it out what he could have passed on?
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Doubleohseven · 28/03/2019 22:10
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