My DDad was taken to hospital today. It was scary for a few hours, but he is stable now and likely to get better pretty quickly.
My DB is away for a couple of weeks, very different timezone. I am mid text conversation with him, in that I should be replying to something he sent me about his trip. I don't have to, but it would seem a bit weird not to.
My DM isn't keen on me mentioning my dad's hospital stay so I don't ruin the holiday. She said it was ok if I think I need to, but she wasn't going to do it herself. I think if I reply, it would be so strange not to mention it and besides that I think he has the right to know.
I'd phrase it sensibly, no dramatics, but I guess what I'm asking is would you want to know while on a special trip? Would it ruin it?
I am sure I would want to know and we're both in our late 30s, so proper grown ups (more or less), and he is a sensible sort of guy.
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WWYD. Dad in hospital. Brother away.
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DarthRosenberg · 28/03/2019 19:26
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