DM is embarrassed we rent a tiny house. She makes this clear every time we speak as she says things like ‘it’s ridiculous you live in that house’ ‘and when are you going into move to a bigger house’ etc etc.
We can’t afford to buy or rent a bigger house. Her husband has 2 ‘golden children’ that live in massive houses they own so it’s made clear regularly that we are the black sheep.
But she’s only see her grandkids once for a few hours in the last year- she won’t visit us and I think it’s because we are an embarrassment to her.
Aibu to have it out with her? My DCs ask why she never comes to visit. It makes me feel so crap & such a failure in my life- we just can’t afford to buy.
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DM won’t visit us because we rent
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Mangetoutrodney · 28/03/2019 18:17
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