35 weeks pregnant, DM is round the house visiting me and the toddler.
I'm moving all the bedroom furniture around to make room for the new babies cot, sorting through clothes, decluttering and throwing away rubbish etc. DM instantly comes in to help (shes 66, fit and healthy but does have arthritis in her joints)
OH comes in from a night shift and goes on the xbox rather than going to bed, doesn't offer to help us move the furniture. Leaves toddler in the travel cot whinging whilst he concentrates on his game. Myself and DM have to keep stopping what we're doing to attend to toddler who's having a paddy because he's bored. Travel cot is next to where OH is sat playing games.
I shout through saying can you at least tend to the toddler, he replies "I have give him his dummy" and continues staring at the screen.
What are your thoughts on this scenario, is anybody being unreasonable? Him for not helping, me for thinking he should have?
In general he does fuck all around the house bar cook the odd meal or change the bin.
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AIBU?
Heavily pregnant, but OH leaves me and 66yo DM to move furniture
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AmyUnreasonable · 26/03/2019 11:49
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