Sorry this is in AIBU, but I really need some opinions.
My father is 81. I saw him last weekend when he visited us. But a couple of days ago he had to go to A&E because he was in pain with his bowels. He had to have an operation under GA to remove some scar tissue. Operation was successful and he is recovering OK (As well as he can considering his age). They put him in ICU for a night and now he is going to be moved to the general ward to recover and he will be there for at least a week till he is well enough to go home.
My mum is on her own supporting him, as I am an only child, so no other close family. Although they have had visits from friends and extended family.
They live in Surrey and I live in Manchester. I can't stay for the night at my parents place, no room at all. Plus I have 2 primary aged DCs who I usually do the school drop off and pick ups as DH is a teacher, but wrap around care can be arranged.
I would have to go for the day. It would take me about 8hrs in total to go there and back. Should I go? My mum understands I have work etc (but I can take annual leave) but implied that I should come if I can.
Realistically I'd be seeing my dad for a couple of hours and then back on the train.
He is not in a critical situation, but recovering from a operation, but at the age of 81 who knows....
WWYD please.
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DataColour · 26/03/2019 10:28
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