Hi everyone, just looking for advice.
I have an 18 yr old who i had the best relationship with. We would share everything. She was kind, thoughtful and a very happy young lady.
Recently she started going out with her first every boyfriend a few months ago. He seems like a nice guy, a bit shy but generally a nice guy. But my daughters attitude towards myself and her family has changed dramatically. Shes more sarcastic, cheeky, isolating herself in her room when she doesnt see her boyfriend. She doesnt even make time for her baby brother anymore and is being quite hurtful with things she says. But when her boyfriend is around shes back to that lovely girl i mentioned.
My daughter and i had a girls day out last week (which was planned months ago). She didnt make any effort with me even though i kept making an effort, took her out for lunch, just a general catch up was definitely needed but she was constantly on the phone to her boyfriend. She never acknowledged i was there half the time. I caught her texting her boyfriend saying she was fed up with me and wanted to be with him...i was left a bit hurt. So i just ended our day out earlier which she enjoyed. Since, she has been really moody, cheeky, having loud sex in the house, bascially having complete rebellious stage for an 18 yr old. She told me to leave my house if i didnt like to hear them having sex. Her full attitude has changed.
I feel my attitude is changing. Weve had about 4 fall outs since she started her relationship and im worried im pushing her away.
I have approached her about her attitude change to her whole family, she blames it on work and college demands but its proper mood swings and slamming doors every 2 mins. I feel im at my wits end.
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Mamoababe24 · 25/03/2019 11:58
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