So I’ve been friends with someone for a couple of years. We both have kids and stuff, and we got pretty good friends.
Now to begin with I thought she was just unlucky in love, she was seeing a couple of men, both of which were in a relationship with kids involved. One of them she was insistent she didn’t know about his wife until she was quite involved. One of them ended up incredibly stressed and ended up in hospital, presumably caused by having an affair. That ended. She now has another man as well, so still two, both of which are married with kids. I also thought for a long time that it was none of my business and I should keep my nose out. I’ve suggested on many occasions maybe trying a dating site to find a single man but that doesn’t interest her.
Anyway, as times gone by and she’s told me more and more about things as they happen, it seems to me that she hounds them and hounds them until they respond to her and agree to meet up. If they ignore her for long enough she starts sending photos of herself in Ann summers clothes she’s bought. One went on a family holiday and she bombarded him with messages until he replied near the end of his holiday, and while his mum was in hospital she also repeatedly sent messages to him until he went outside and replied to her.
I know they’re the ones cheating but I’ve been feeling more and more uncomfortable with her, she always goes into loads of details and tells me. She was really excited recently because she’d been round and managed to sleep with one of them in her bed. I can’t help but think she’s wrecking someone’s life, if the women found out they’d be devastated, but it’s like that excites her more and more.
Now I know it’s none of my business really, but then she tells me everything. There are lots of other odd things too, but this thing with married men makes me feel uncomfortable, so aibu thinking I should no longer be friends with her?
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Hrh80 · 24/03/2019 19:36
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