Probably being childish so if I am please say so.
I’ve been with my oh 8 nearly 9 years, I used to be quite close together mother in law but since my ohs brother married and had a child she does t really want to know anymore. We have no children and she was on about it for years asking when we were going to have one (we have infertility and due to start ivf next year) she doesn’t know about any of it and we have just said we don’t want any yet.
Since my sil has had a baby they do everything together and it’s all my mil talks about, I find it very hard to be around pregnant ladies/newborns/children. I’ve wanted to be a mom for so long.
They get invited round for dinner every Friday evening and Sunday but me and my oh don’t get asked?! Or my ohs other brother and his wife don’t get asked either ( their also childless)
I actually feel jealous and bitter about it, am I being unreasonable? I kind of feel like I should t give a shit because what kind of woman only wants to know her son if they have a child for her to play nanny to ?
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Rspu1384 · 24/03/2019 14:41
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