Have had some good advice off MN in the last few days so hoping for some more.
DS1 turned 17 a couple of weeks ago. His Dad decided he "needed" to learn to drive and has arranged 10 driving lessons for him with a "mate".
He sent DS1 home with the form to apply for a licence to me. Said I could do it all online, "just needed to get passport style photos and a signature on the pics from reputable person".
I can't do it online as DS1 does not have a passport, so have to pay £43 to do it through the post.
Have to send in 2 forms of ID. Have birth cett....fine. EXDH says send in national insurance card. Don't have one, which leads to EXDH moaning that I must have it and have lost it or thrown it away. No, just not received one.
Have spent my day off at the library on the computer printing off app form for new national insurance number which will take 2 weeks to arrive by post. Then i can fill in driving licence form, add national insurance card and birth certificate, badger DS1 to get photos signed by busy teachers pay £43, post then wait.
All the time getting text messages from EXDH to get it sorted.
This was all his idea, DS1 not even that fussed, just doing it because EXDH wants it.
Who's going to buy the car?
Who's going to pay the insurance?
Who's going to pay the road tax?
ME!!!!!
I just want to give the app form back to EXDH and say "Your idea, you sort it".
But I just know he will twist it to make me look bad.
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AIBU?
To send this issue back to EXDH as he started it
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jessicawessica · 22/03/2019 23:35
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