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to tell you that MNHQ can call the police if they’re worried about you?

118 replies

PurpleDaisies · 20/03/2019 18:12

This is news to me. The official policy is this...

'...on rare occasions where there appears to be a clear need to safeguard the welfare of a Mumsnetter and/or his/her family, it may be necessary to contact relevant authorities'

I am not referencing a specific thread or this will be deleted but I think posters should be aware that this is the case.

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SamBaileys · 20/03/2019 18:12

Well I didn't know that, so thanks for sharing.

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AlpacasAreLlamas · 20/03/2019 18:17

Who are the relevant authorities?

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PurpleDaisies · 20/03/2019 18:17

It definitely includes the police.

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sagradafamiliar · 20/03/2019 18:22

Yeah I knew that when I signed up and I'm thankful for it. Just my opinion.

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PlainSpeakingStraightTalking · 20/03/2019 18:24

Nothing wrong with that - or are you saying if some one posts they are about to commit suicide and take everyone with them, they should be left alone to do that ?

Im all for capacity to make own decisions, but there is a line to be drawn if it involves the harm of others

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Disfordarkchocolate · 20/03/2019 18:25

Common and expected practice and I'm glad its in place. There are some very vulnerable people on this site and some idiots who give no thought to how they may upset people too.

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Grace212 · 20/03/2019 18:26

I thought this was standard for online boards like this.

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Bobbycat121 · 20/03/2019 18:26

police/ss

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Stormwhale · 20/03/2019 18:27

Yep and I'm fine with it thanks. I would hope that if I was ever so mentally unwell that I wanted to kill myself that someone would stop me.

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SeeYouLaterUserData · 20/03/2019 18:28

But how? Do people use their real names when she going up these days? Confused

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sagradafamiliar · 20/03/2019 18:28

If someone came on saying they are potentially a family annihilator and were on the brink, I'd like to think something could be done to prevent it.
It's a bit like human rights for me. They apply to everyone. Some people might not agree that criminals should have them but if those people want human rights, then they have to apply to everyone.

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McFrostyNuts · 20/03/2019 18:29

How would they know who and where you are? IP address? What if your using data and have false details on your profile?

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SeeYouLaterUserData · 20/03/2019 18:29
  • when signing up
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TyneTeas · 20/03/2019 18:29

MNHQ explain why on this thread I think

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/site_stuff/3537209-Urgently-need-to-contact-a-moderator?

Hi all. We have clear rules around suicidal content, designed with the assistance of the Samaritans, to keep everyone as safe as possible.

Here's the relevant section from our Privacy Policy www.mumsnet.com/info/privacy-policy

If there are compelling safeguarding considerations, we may share your data with public authorities without your permission. We understand 'compelling safeguarding considerations' to mean credible evidence of imminent risk of serious harm, especially to a child or vulnerable person.

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SeeYouLaterUserData · 20/03/2019 18:29

X post frostynuts

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sagradafamiliar · 20/03/2019 18:30

I'm heartened to see these responses after reading all the hoiky-busoms erm...elsewhere.

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MilkTwoSugarsThanks · 20/03/2019 18:30

Tbh I think whatever MNHQ do is wrong as far as some people are concerned.

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MitziK · 20/03/2019 18:32

I'm fine with that.

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UrsulaPandress · 20/03/2019 18:33

They don’t have our address do they?

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continuallychargingmyphone · 20/03/2019 18:34

I have a huge problem with that.

Where are they getting info about me from?

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RiddleyW · 20/03/2019 18:34

I was on the sharp end of this once and appreciated the support.

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BloodyDisgrace · 20/03/2019 18:34

I think it is a good idea.

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QueenOfTheTofuTree · 20/03/2019 18:34

I was actually wondering myself how they would know where to send the police to. AFAIK your UP address can only be used to give a vague idea of the area you're in but not your exact address.

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SnowyAlpsandPeaks · 20/03/2019 18:34

Yep knew this and most forums have things like this in place. Why is it a problem?

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Soubriquet · 20/03/2019 18:34

I actually think this is a good idea for people who are vulnerable

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