Slightly untraditional thread, as this was a situation that happened 20 years ago and I will update what actually happened; I wanted to ask opinions first, I hope that's not too annoying.
So you've been married 10 years, unhappily. Your DH is sexist, controlling, selfish, obsessed with money and generally quite unpleasant. He was all charm when you met, of course. You have two DCs, age 9 & 12.
You're depressed and trying to get financially independent so you start a new company and it's going well.
Do you:
- Move out, leaving the kids with DH after verbally agreeing 50/50 custody.
- Move out, taking the kids with you.
- Insist DH moves out after agreeing 50/50 custody.